Use the 80/20 Rule for ATTITUDE

The 80/20 rule is as applicable to individual people. Fully eighty percent of your success will be determined by your attitude and only twenty percent by your aptitude. Some people feel that attitude is ninety percent of success in all human endeavours involving other people, but we can quite comfortably use eighty percent as a …

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What might have been….

While it’s often fashionable to dwell upon what might have been, what’s usually overlooked is that really and truly, it couldn’t have. Invariably, any romanticised versions of how things “might have been,” are based upon fictionalised versions of the past.

Quality of your life…..

The quality of your life is directly proportional to the quality of your relationships. The quality of your relationships is directly proportional to the quality of your communication. If you want a better a life, start communicating in a better way, especially the quality of your self talk. Start with asking yourself a better quality …

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10 Thoughts about Questions

I’ve been talking a lot about questioning skills with my clients lately and thought you might enjoy some assorted thoughts. 1) A good question can draw someone inward and . . . cause them to reflect, consider and even do so subconsciously through the awareness your question has created. 2) Good questioning allows you to …

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Witch Doctor Ash

Ash won’t shrink from any player’s challenge ASHLEY LAWRENCE would have been burned at the stake or at the very least sat on a ducking chair and plunged into icy water a few hundred years ago. Anyone who reckoned he (or indeed she) could heal with the power of positive thinking would have been declared …

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Ashley works with Gillingham FC

Gills meet away day problems head on… How does a team which cannot win away for 18 months triumph twice on the road in four days? Plenty of Gillingham fans may have pondered that question on the way home from watching the 2-1 victory at Barnet on Tuesday night, which came hot on the heels …

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It's good to talk

Adebayo Akinfenwa hailed the impact of sports psychologist Ashley Lawrence for helping to transform his Gillingham career. Ashley Lawrence was brought in after Gillingham hit their lowest point of the season in early November with the FA Cup first round defeat to Dover. Akinfenwa, who walked off to a standing ovation on Tuesday during the …

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